madan_girl_300pxYou have heard the expression, “things are not what they use to be.” This certainly is true of mission work today. This week we came across some friends whose parents were missionaries in Nigeria for several decades. Our friends said that their parents had to take everything from the UK to Nigeria to last for 3 years. They had to take three years’ worth of Christmas and birthday presents. They had to take all types and sizes of clothing and shoes because they did not know how fast the children would grow. They did not know whether the letters they sent reached home; when they did, there were several months before they received any replies. Medical care was almost nonexistent … ; and the list goes on and on. So what has changed?

Emmanuel

Emmanuel

The story that I am about to tell you is the most amazing, unbelievable narrative that I have ever written to you. I can imagine that many of you might have a hard time swallowing the details of the story of Emmanuel. Even our Nigerian co-workers have been taken aback by the history of this precious child.

Pastor Bulus, one of the City Ministries pastors, manages a care center with 10 boys. Recently, he was on an outreach in a remote village. Ambling through a field on the village outskirts, he stumbled upon what he first thought was a log. How shocked he was to find that the object at his feet was the wrecked body of a small boy! Lifting the boy into his arms, he raced into the town in search of help.

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Recently, I had a frustrating experience that opened up the opportunity to grab the attention of our boys at Transition House in order to teach them something valuable. The chance to teach came while farming, when they could  see the message with their eyes, feel it with their hands, and hear it with their ears.

At Transition House, we’ve been teaching the boys farming using a method called Farming God’s Way—​you can read about it at http://www.farming-gods-way.org. On this day, we were planting soybeans according to this method. I had given out cups and told the boys how to use them for placing manure in the planting furrows. Now, though, I noticed that the boys had stopped using the measuring cups—they were using their hands instead!

When I first noticed this, I just settled for the way they were doing it. Soon, though, I noticed the manure being spread thinner and thinner. So I asked the boys again to use the cups, but no one seemed to know where they were. This made me angry. I walked down the field looking for the cups in the furrows, but found nothing.

Matt WallisWe arrived at the camp to find everyone in a subdued mood. The rain had been pretty bad and some of the tents had failed and a lot of the mattresses were wet. We had to resort to plan B. All the guys were thrown out of their tents to make way for the girls and then the guys had to make do with whatever shelter they could make.  Some re-fashioned the shelters that were there while others went back and slept in the vehicles that were in the village. See the whole story on Matt's blog.

My whole first term was a constant learning curve, learning things I would never even have thought of learning before.

My first term on the field as a career missionary was 2 ½ years long, and next January I will begin my second term of the same length. Before I went to Africa, I expected certain things of that first term. I expected I’d learn the language well, that I’d make great progress in the ministry I was in, that I’d learn the culture and learn to thrive, and that I’d come home for my first home assignment with flying colors. What I learned, however, was that I had to lose those expectations. I thought I’d dive right in and accomplish so much. I did accomplish much, but they weren’t the things I expected. Here’s some of my “accomplishments”:

At the start of April a team of eight westerners, including myself, and six Nigerians headed ten hours north to the Nigeria/Niger border for a week long outreach. We spent six days in three different villages on the fringe of the Sahara desert. We shared the love of Christ and offered free medical care, played with a ton of children and showed evangelistic films. It was an unusual experience to be watched by hundreds of big, curious eyes for 24 hours. They were fighting over who had the best spot to stare through the church windows as we ate in the church. …

Read the whole story on Ruth McDowell's blog.

To show friendship or a desire to get to know somebody, we may think that we should invite people to our homes, but the opposite is true in Nigeria.
We Nigerians love visiting each other at home because it is a sign of friendship and, more importantly, a sign of acceptance. Anyone who will take the time to visit a Nigerian at home is showing that the person matters to them. Let me give you a few tips on how you can build relationships and benefit yourself and your friends through visiting.

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