Village of girls' grandparentsHelping a widow regain custody of her two girls. One complication: the woman had murdered her husband.

Rachel was imprisoned for murdering her husband. Her husband was very abusive to her, so abusive that she went to her parents' house for protection. Her husband came to her parents' house, came up behind her while she was cleaning the dishes and started to beat her. She had a pounder in her hand (used for pounding yams) and swung it around to defend herself, cracking his skull and resulting in his death.

In Nigeria, a woman and her children are considered property of her husband and when he dies, the children and home become property of his family. The woman rarely gets anything to possess, not even the children.

When Rachel (not her real name) got out of prison, she had no where to go, no way to support herself and no hope of getting her three daughters back. We took her into Grace Gardens where now she has a safe, clean home to live in. She is no longer being abused, she is learning to sew, and we took on the task of getting her children back. It was not to be as simple as I thought.

Nigerian man with red knit cap

I recently attended the West Africa Orality Consultation here in Jos. Almost everyone I have talked to since then about this conference  has asked the same question, namely, “what does 'orality' mean?” I must admit I was not entirely sure myself until I attended this conference.

Orality is an important concept for missionaries to grasp. If we categorise cultures into those that are primarily literate and those that are primarily oral, orality refers to the way that oral cultures and oral learners receive, process, remember and pass on important information. It may help to think about story telling, because this is one good example of how oral learners receive, understand and pass on information. There are many other ways of course, such as songs, proverbs, poetry, riddles and drama.

The reality is that 60% of the world's population is either illiterate or functionally illiterate, while another 20% are semi-literate and prefer oral to literate communication. According to projections, this proportion (70-80%) who are primarily oral learners will increase rather than decrease as time passes. Therefore we will be missing the mark with most people if our strategies for communicating the Gospel (or anything else for that matter) are based on literate culture principles, such as books, reading, analytical and conceptual thinking, 3 point sermons, Bible study etc.

Groundbreaking of multipurpose building at ECWA Seminary Kagoro Janne and I have just returned from ECWA Theological Seminary Kagoro where we were part of a foundation laying ceremony for a new multipurpose building. We're excited about the ways this new building will allow the seminary to grow.The cost is being met by a donor from outside the seminary. Here you see  the ECWA President, Rev. Anthony Farinto, laying the foundation stone.

A new guest house was dedicated at the same time, named after Mr. and Mrs. Carl Tanis, who founded the seminary around 1930. Again the staff and students of the institution are inspired by the example of the dedication of the early missionaries in bringing the gospel to this area.

Colorfully dressed women on road to the villgeWearing their distinctive, matching wrappers and singing enthusiastically, ladies streamed down the Miango road yesterday like a giant, colorful caterpillar. As they walked, making a statement to all who saw them, they met other groups of women coming from their homes and churches. Most carried on their heads gifts to share: grains, plastic bowls, clothing, cooking pots, fruits and vegetables. These women were on a mission of mercy, culminating their week of ECWA Women’s Fellowship meetings. I was humbled to be among them.

Four nights previously, around 11 pm the night of Monday, October 25th, a band of youth indiscriminately attacked the small village of Rengwenku, 5 miles from KA. Randomly and maliciously, they burned homes and attacked people as they slept. Men from Miango, including several from KA, heard the shots and went to help. The attackers had fled into the surrounding woods, leaving behind them a wake of destruction: 21 houses burned and six women and children killed, five from one home.

EmmanuellaEmmanuella is a 12 year old girl who came to our ministry two and a half years ago. When she was brought to our centre at Gidan Bege she was in a bad state. Our staff were moved to tears when they saw the extent of the maltreatment she had received at the hands of a local “prayer man.” After she lost her mother and her father had left her with her grandmother. An aunt falsely accused her of being involved in a secret society as people living nearby were becoming sick. The aunt took her to the “prayer man” for help. To try to get her to confess, he burned her with a heating iron on her arms, legs and back. She was branded like an animal with a hot tool.

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Missy Camiola with a child

Missy Camiola with Abigail, one
of the children in the brothel

Usually, when we go out to share with the ladies in the brothels, we get little response from the women at the first one, which I have written about before. The owner, who doesn’t speak much English, is a mean old lady named Mama Rahila. Most of her girls are either pregnant or have just had a baby. This is where I have seen babies tied up while the mom is working. Karis and I keep going every week to this place. We often bring candy for the kids and we always invite the women out to our Bible study. Rarely do any of them come, though, because Mama has threatened to beat them if they do.

I spent a long time in prayer last night asking God how to reach these ladies. I felt that God was laying on my heart to go in with arms full of Bibles to give to the ladies as gifts and then to preach the word right there in the middle of the brothel. So, that is what we did!

abner2Some of you may remember the little boy named Abner whom I met the first time I came to Nigeria. He was crawling on the floor, on his hands and knees, with his knees stuck in a bent position. Abner was the victim of polio. Left with no function in his legs, he was doomed to crawling on the floor to get from place to place. You can see many such children crawling along the side of the road begging for money. Because of the grace of God and the love of many people, this would not be Abner's future.

Abner was living at the school for the children of Nigerian missionaries when several SIM missionaries and I met him and wanted to help. A team from Colorado also visited and donated money for surgery to straighten his legs. Later I began therapy to keep his muscles stretched out and help him begin walking.

I helped get Abner leg braces and crutches and he was slowly able to walk on his own. He developed a different view of the world as he was no longer confined to looking at the world from the ground up.

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